The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal

The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal, but that map was not made for you. It was made to keep the engine of our cultural machine running. It requires your numbness. Refuse, and understand why we have to study the stages. We admit that the traumas buried in our unconscious rule our lives, makes us powerless to embody the truth, and drives us to act out in ways destructive to ourselves, to others, and to the environment.

 come to believe that the truth at our core is more powerful than the lies imposed upon us, and that this truth can lead us to our enlightenment.

 make a decision to align with truth, despite the pressure to submit to the distortions of family, society, and the historical voices we carry within us.

 make a searching and fearless assessment of our traumatic history: personal, familial and ancestral.

 admit to ourselves and to a recovered person the full details of our traumas.

 become entirely ready to grieve this past and to let go of our false constructed self.align with our true self and do the deep and transforming work of grieving.

 study the ways we have hurt ourselves, others and the environment through replication of our traumas, and we become willing to make amends to them all.change our inappropriate behaviour to ourselves and others. continue to monitor our attitudes and behaviour, and when we make a mistake or escape we promptly admit it, trace its traumatic origin, and take steps to not repeat it.seek through self-reflection an ever deepening connection to truth, desiring only to be guided to our life’s calling our child hidden within.

 Having awakened to our child with-ins calling, we dedicate our lives to its full manifestation and to nurturing the healing paths of others.